Mother’s Day is often portrayed as another Hallmark occasion, with smiling, multi-generational, nuclear families celebrating their mothers with gifts of food, flowers and sometimes, lavish jewelry. That may not be your reality it’s not for many mothers I know but that doesn’t mean you should just ignore this occasion. Here are some suggestions for how to make sure you enjoy Mother’s Day after divorce . Being A Mom After Divorce Is Not Always Good Let’s acknowledge this. If you have minor children, divorce usually means that your children will not be with you 100 percent of the time and that’s a challenge. Even with the best, the most cooperative ex who is actively and positively involved in co-operating, not seeing your child every day can be gut-wrenching. Your responsibility as a mother is to be a good role model for your children, to show them that you are coping and adjusting to your new family situation and that you are supportive of their relationship with their o