Mother’s Day is often portrayed as another Hallmark occasion, with smiling, multi-generational, nuclear families celebrating their mothers with gifts of food, flowers and sometimes, lavish jewelry. That may not be your reality it’s not for many mothers I know but that doesn’t mean you should just ignore this occasion. Here are some suggestions for how to make sure you enjoy Mother’s Day after divorce . Being A Mom After Divorce Is Not Always Good Let’s acknowledge this. If you have minor children, divorce usually means that your children will not be with you 100 percent of the time and that’s a challenge. Even with the best, the most cooperative ex who is actively and positively involved in co-operating, not seeing your child every day can be gut-wrenching. Your responsibility as a mother is to be a good role model for your children, to show them that you are coping and adjusting to your new family situation and that you are supportive of their relationship with their o
We’re advocates of all victims of domestic violence. But today, we’re putting the needs of women in the spotlight. For you or for a woman in your life who you fear is trapped in an abusive relationship, here are some important reminders that you deserve safety and protection. You deserve to break free. You have the right to be safe . You don’t need to endure any form of abuse, whether it’s physical, sexual, emotional, or financial abuse. In 2018, it’s tragically still true that 1 in 3 women will encounter some form of partner violence in her lifetime. For your own protection, and to help women in your life who may experience abuse, learn how to file for a temporary restraining order. A court-ordered protective order prohibits your abuser from contacting you anywhere at home, at work, or on your phone. You have the right to keep your children safe . Women often stay in their abusive relationship because their abusers threaten to take their children from them, or threaten to