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How Social Media Can Undermine Your Divorce!


The social media lifestyle can have negative consequences and one of which is this: You can sabotage your own divorce case if you aren’t careful about posting on social media sites such as Facebook, Twitter and Instagram. These are few of the popular social Medias you need to think twice before posting anything that will harm the process of your divorce.
Yes, divorce lawyers all over the country are, more and more, sharing Facebook posts, Twitter tweets and Instagram pics and captions in the courtroom. These “snapshots” into the life of your soon-to-be ex-spouse have exposed extramarital affairs and outright lies that can affect everything from spousal support (alimony) to the time you’re allowed to spend with your children.
Social media networking can undermine your divorce. So, what can you do about it today?
What Can I Do About Social Media and My Divorce?
One thing lawyers say is crucial to the divorce process is patience and restraint. Sure, it may be very tempting to post on Facebook about your new relationship, but it can also be used as evidence against you depends on the total circumstances.  
What about tweets, Instagram pics and even “check ins” on your smart phone?  They can pinpoint your movements that can build a case to your very own guilt! And that’s not good in any court action.
Remember, you may feel like you are flying (as in partying) after you’ve decided to separate from your spouse, but do you really want to capture all the flying-too-high moments too?
Social media evidence can jeopardize not only your court case, but also affect your child custody rights and future ability to co-parent with your ex-spouse. Here are some more tips:
Don’t brag. Think twice about “bragging” to your ex via any social networking post. Party pics can get you in trouble in more ways than just one.
Block your ex. Block your ex-spouse from all your social media sites and consider blocking or limiting availability to certain family, friends and colleagues who are sympathetic to your ex-spouse.
Change your passwords and protect your digital equipment. It is possible your ex-spouse has or had access to your laptop or smart phone and can hijack passwords and even install spyware software. First, take the time to change all your important passwords. If you suspect spyware or are just curious, you can take your laptop or smart phone to a spyware detection specialist.
Stop checking in. Don’t let everyone know your whereabouts during this sensitive time in your life. It’s time to calm down on any location services software such as “check ins” on your cell phone.
It may not be fun, but be wary before, during and after divorce about how your ex-spouse, friends and family members (and a judge!) may feel about all of your social networking posts.

For more information on social media and divorce, consult with a lawyer. If you don’t have one, here at Dianne Drew Butler and Associates, Inc. we are gladly to help. Call us today for a consult at (209) 478-0840.

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